You would have to bump into me in real-life, and subtly seduce me with your femininity and intelligence.
The fates have been kind to me, that’s already happened, and I have a beautiful partner and a busy life creating awesome things. Which sadly leaves me no time for mentorship, although I’m honoured you asked.
My advice to those looking, is to go out and bump into interesting people. Find the smart ones, the thoughtful ones, the ones without a temper. Look for improvisers with open minds who enjoy being playful, the rulebreakers, the unconventionals. These are the clues. We keep our kinky secrets well hidden, but we can recognise a kindred spirit.
Most importantly, don’t let anyone you meet (online or offline) try to tame you or blunt your edge. The mission of a dominant man is to help unleash and empower, to encourage rather than intimidate. He should be a screenwriter, a director wanting to bring out the best in his leading lady. A real man, not a boy in a man’s body. Someone with character, self-control, who isn’t just looking for sex on demand.
It’s a tall order, I know finding quality people can be hard. But build an awesome life for yourself, and you’ll attract awesome people into it. And if they’re not quite kinky enough, give them my stories to read. That’s why I write them.
And may the fates be kind to you too.