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September 2016

Self Spanking Challenge Day 6 – Alter Ego

The 6th part of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Previous challenges can be found here.


Challenge – Day 6

In today’s challenge someone’s going to get their bare bottom spanked. But not you exactly – your alter ego. You are going to imagine that you’re someone else entirely, someone about to receive a good spanking. Then, afterwards, you’re going to sit down on your sore bottom and write about what happened in that character’s voice…




One of the difficulties experienced by those engaging in kinky play is being too self-conscious. The emotional side of you wants to let go and submerse yourself in fantasy, but your rational mind can be tricky to silence, providing a self-critical running commentary that can really kill the mood. So for this challenge, you’re going to pretend to be someone completely different for a while.

Begin by naming the character you’re going to play. The persona you choose doesn’t even need to be the same gender as yourself, if you’re a cis female, and want to play a naughty schoolboy, go ahead – you dress in shorts rather than a skirt, and even slip a dildo inside yourself and pretend it’s your erection. Likewise cis males wanting to play girls can tuck their penis between their legs.

Create a character who’s distinctly different to your real-world persona: that might be someone younger or older, someone meeker or more self-confident, perhaps more embarrassed by your own nudity or more of an exhibitionist. Think Being John Malkovich – whose mind would you love to inhabit for 15 minutes…?

If you’re having difficulty coming up with a character of your own, find inspiration from a favourite story, and make a few changes. Perhaps you’d like to become Alice, Natalie, Nancy Jones or The Boy.

Once you’ve established the basic profile of your character, get a piece of paper and write down the following:

I am [character’s name].

I am [character’s age and gender].

I am [list 3 of your character’s personality traits]

Next, imagine a spanking fantasy for your new character. Why are they being spanked? Do they deserve their punishment? How do they feel about the prospect of being spanked? Who is going to be spanking them? What do they spank with, and what are their rituals of punishment?

Once you have the fantasy established in your mind, act it out. Use what you’ve learned in the previous challenges if you like, try dressing up, or waiting in anticipation before your spanking. Both activities can help you get into character, and immerse yourself in the fantasy you’re creating. Perhaps you’ll be sent for some cornertime afterwards too.

Once you’ve had your spanking, and whatever you imagined happened afterwards, sit down on your sore bottom and begin writing. You may write publicly on your blog, or privately in your own journal.

Write up what you’ve imagined, in the 1st person, incorporate what you wrote down on that scrap of paper as you established your character. Describe what happened in the scene, how you fleshed out the details, how you embellished it with your own imagination. Did you dress up? How did you get into the mind of the character you created?

How did your character feel about their spanking? Were they anxious or aroused? Did you feel like you were experiencing a spanking from a different point of view – did you enjoy adopting and playing in a different persona?

When you’ve finished, post what you’ve written with the tags #selfspankingchallenge and #selfspankingchallenge6

And then, I’m sure you’ll be keen to play – in the character of your new alter ego, of course.

The next challenge will be posted soon. In the meantime, have fun…

What Nice Men Don’t Say To Nice Women

  • I want to spank your bare bottom.
  • I want to tie you up.
  • I want to thoroughly inspect and penetrate your tight little bottom hole.
  • I want you to dress up in school uniform, and address me as Sir.
  • I want you to text me at random, and tell me you’ve been a naughty girl.
  • I want to promise you a spanking, and have you think about it all day long.
  • I want you to wear a butt plug when we go out to dinner.
  • I want you to go the ladies, take off your panties, and drop them in my lap.
  • I want to smack your bum pink, and you to thank me afterwards.

Ever wanted to say that?

Or longed for your partner to say it to you?

Then you should read this…

Hi! Why is it you never write stories about women giving blow jobs (in any fashion for fun or for punishment)? I’ve always just wondered. I like to give them and I love reading stories with it in them. Do you not like them personally?

A great question, dear reader.

As it happens, I do like oral sex. But first and foremost, I’m a storyteller. If blow jobs play a part in the story I’ve imagined, I will write about them, but I’d rather not include them gratuitously. Poor quality erotica too often loses sight of character and story, to become just a succession of titillating sex acts.

For instance, in Christmas Present, there is a scene with a blow job, but it’s a fleeting moment in the context of the wider story. I could have spent longer describing it, how Nancy’s smiling mouth enveloped his stiff salty member, how she could feel the throb of his pulse against her coddling tongue. How it filled her mouth so completely, it summoned memories of sucking her own thumb.

But I would have stopped there, rather than risk diluting the story, because it’s not a tale about oral sex, it’s about the theatre of discipline, domination and submission that is spanking. Likewise, there’s also a cock sucking scene in Coming of Age, a few hot paragraphs in a tale of a flourishing romance.

If there are activities that excite you, feel free to suggest them. And I might yet conjure up just the right story to do your own fantasies justice…

Nice girls don’t pull up their panties good and tight and squirm around, do they, sir?

In my experience, nice girls often pull up their panties good and tight
and squirm around. Especially when reading naughty stories like Punishment Panties, or The Sit-Down Dance. And most
especially when they know their disciplinarian might later be pulling down said panties, and thoroughly inspecting them.

Because you know what happens to nice girls who get caught in wet panties

Self-Spanking Challenge Recap

The Self-Spanking Challenge is a series of posts, posted weekly, with
the aim of encouraging the curious reader to explore and indulge in
spanking activities, in the privacy of your own bedroom.

We begin at the shallow end, with a few short writing assignments that will
encourage you to put into words why spanking holds such fascination.
Perhaps it’s the sensations, or imagining the erotic jeopardy of
submitting to an authority figure, or maybe it’s a powerful memory from
long ago, or something else entirely.

Later, as you become more
comfortable with the sensations of spanking, the challenges will become
more physical, introducing new scenarios and ideas for playing. You’ll
always be in control, and you can skip any challenge you feel
uncomfortable doing. And as you’re in charge, your bottom will only ever
be as sore as you want it to be.

If you have an anonymous blog,
I’d strongly encourage you to post a quick write-up after each
challenge. If you don’t, I’d still encourage you to write about the
challenge, either in a private journal or document.

Ready to get started?

Here’s the current list of challenges…

Day 1 – The Fascination of Spanking

Day 2 – Choices and Consequences

Day 3 – Dressing Up

Day 4 – Anticipation

Day 5 – Cornertime

Day 6 – Alter Ego

Day 7 – Being Naughty

Day 8 – Bottom Inspection

And for future posts, keep an eye on the tag #selfspankingchallenge

I have been a really naughty girl. I have spent over 2 hours while I’m at work reading The sit down dance, parts 1&2. I have gotten no work done. Please give me a punishment that’ll teach me to finish work first and have fun later.

Reading spanking stories at work is extremely naughty!

(Admittedly, the Sit-Down Dance is a very compelling story)

As punishment, you will begin the self-spanking challenge, young lady.

After each challenge, you will
write-up your reports sitting on your sore bottom, as a reminder to get
your work done, then post them on your blog so everyone can see how
naughty you’ve been.

You may begin with the first challenge. Go to your room!

Self-Spanking Challenge Day 5 – Corner Time

The 5th part of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Previous challenges can be found here.



Challenge – Day 5

In today’s challenge you’re going to get your bare bottom spanked. Then, afterwards, you’re going to stand in silence with your sore bum on display, so everyone can so how naughty you’ve been. Once the blush on your face matches the pinkness of your buttocks, you can write about what you’ve learned…




In the previous challenge you explored the anticipation that came before a spanking, in this challenge you’ll experience what comes after a spanking. Even if all you know about spanking is based on reading stories and watching videos, you’ll know that a punishment rarely ends when the last smack echoes into silence…

No competent disciplinarian would ever allow a miscreant who had just been punished to just rub their sore bottom and pull up their underwear, and then walk away. A disciplinarian expects the heat of a spanked bottom to linger, smouldering until it begins to dominate the spankee’s mind, overwhelming every other physical sensation as they stand in silence, ruminating on their predicament. Hence, corner time.

You’ve probably already witnessed this in pictures or video. A naughty girl being sent to stand in the corner, her newly acquired pink bottom on display, her hands on her head or clasped in front of her, so she’s not tempted to rub the heat of her spanking away.

In previous challenges you’ve sat down on your sore bottom to write your report after your spanking. This time, you’ll stand for 10 minutes after your spanking, pink bottom on display, contemplating your naughtiness. And no rubbing.

Begin by deciding on a scenario. Perhaps you’ve been sent to see the headmaster or headmistress, and after your whacking, you’re made to stand in disgrace facing the wall, whilst they resume their paperwork. Or maybe it’s a bedtime spanking, and you’re told to stand in the corner before being put to bed. Or maybe your master has invited guests, and you’re put on display like a statue in the living room, naked so your punishment is clearly visible, as all around the assembled guests stare and whisper. Or something else entirely, whatever fantasy arouses you.

So, when you’re ready, get into position and give yourself your spanking.

Afterwards get into position and set a timer, maybe an hourglass egg-timer, or the countdown timer on your mobile phone. A 10 minute wait is reasonable. Stand waiting in silence as the timer counts down. Depending on your fantasy you might want to hold the implement that was used to punish you, or clench it between your buttocks. Be mindful of what you’re thinking as you linger, you’ll be writing about it soon.

Where you choose to stand can offer an enjoyable variety of emotions. Facing a wall produces a more introspective experience, as your mind wanders. Facing a full-length mirror can produce a session of enjoyable embarrassment, as your bottom half is bared, your eyes will be inevitably drawn towards your crotch. The bold, who really enjoy shame and humiliation might enjoy standing with their backs to a window.

When your timer runs out, you can sit down on your sore bottom and begin writing. You may write publicly on your blog, or privately in your own journal.

I challenge you to write a short post describing the scenario you chose, and how it felt to have to wait with your sore bottom on display. Did not rubbing mean the sensations of your spanking changed during the period you spent waiting?

Did you find it frustrating not to be able to rub yourself, yet find that denial arousing? Perhaps that enriched your fantasy, imagining yourself standing in the headmaster’s office yearning to touch yourself.

And now, as you sit on your smacked bottom writing, are you imagining it as a continuation of your fantasy?

Did you enjoy your period of cornertime? Will you incorporate it into your spanking fantasies next time you play? And what variations might you try? Perhaps you might take a timed picture of your own pink bottom as you stand in the corner – and masturbate over it afterwards, as a memento of your naughtiness.

When you’ve finished, post what you’ve written with the tags #selfspankingchallenge and #selfspankingchallenge5

And then, I’m sure you’ll be keen to play.

The next challenge will be posted soon. In the meantime, now you’ve established some experience, perhaps you might want to revisit one of the previous challenges. Why not try improvising some new fantasy from what you’ve learned…?

What Nice Men Don’t Say To Nice Women

  • I want to spank your bare bottom.
  • I want to tie you up.
  • I want to thoroughly inspect and penetrate your tight little bottom hole.
  • I want you to dress up in school uniform, and address me as Sir.
  • I want you to text me at random, and tell me you’ve been a naughty girl.
  • I want to promise you a spanking, and have you think about it all day long.
  • I want you to wear a butt plug when we go out to dinner.
  • I want you to go the ladies, take off your panties, and drop them in my lap.
  • I want to smack your bum pink, and you to thank me afterwards.

I recently wrote a post in response to a lady who wanted to be spanked by her man. It got me thinking – because it isn’t just ladies who can be reluctant to raise the introduction of spanking into a relationship, men have exactly the same problem too.  

Most men are fundamentally nice. That doesn’t mean meek milquetoasts desperate to agree and avoid awkwardness, it just means many blokes have encountered quite enough macho brutes in our lives, and we’ve no desire to come across as one ourselves. We consider ourselves our sweetheart’s protector, not her punisher – even if that thought secretly turns us on…

Emotionally aware men understand relationships require some conciliation, but that’s not what we fantasise about. Yet sometimes it feels easier to keep those desires hidden than reveal our darker secrets, for fear of rocking the boat. We worry about what are partner thinks, and we know we’ll spend far more time with her doing everyday things together than we’ll spend being intimate.

Look at the list that began this post. How does each sentence begin?

“I want…” – not “I’d like…”

Nice men are wary of expressing their wants, it makes us sound like demanding little boys. We’re grown up now, polite and civilised – so we phrase our desires in friendly, conciliatory language. We yearn to say “I want…” but it jars with the mask of niceness we’ve worn for as long as we can remember.

So we get into a routine of vanilla, uncontroversial sex; haunted by the shattering possibility of her horrified rejection of our perverted suggestions, and imagined conversations between her girlfriends afterwards.

“He wanted you to do WHAT???”

Their little group gasped in unison, a chorus of virtuous indignation.

“I know!” she sniffed, “It’s as if I hardly knew him!”

In many respects though, that’s absolutely true – your lover indeed barely knows you. Each of us are massive psychological icebergs, drifting through the turbulent ocean of life, with only the tiniest fraction of ourselves exposed to public scrutiny. And what is seen is carefully curated.

Yet what lies beneath is much more exciting, (I wrote a story about that once).

Jung called our hidden depths The Shadow, but it’s not a dark side, it’s our repository of secrets and thoughts we decide to keep to ourselves. We are
social creatures, and society functions because we have masks to wear
and roles to play.

As we grow up we learn to be discreet, deciding what
side of ourselves to present in public. But that’s ok, our culture might
unravel if everyone was suddenly completely candid with each other,
there’s nothing wrong with keeping certain thoughts and desires private.
 

I think all men will recognise this reticence about revealing our true desires, even if that modesty no longer restrains them. Some will have been bold enough to unmask themselves, in a way that is far more profound than simply removing their clothes. I hope all those who did found their relationships enriched.

If you’re yet to take this leap into the dark, and you want to, begin the conversation.

I chanced upon this terrific video from the wonderful modern philosophers at The School of Life:

Do watch it, and if it resonates with you, you might consider sharing it with your partner. Although the subject matter is profound, its cartoonish presentation should help keep any subsequent discussion light-hearted.

And then, when she asks:

“So, what does a nice man like you not say to a nice woman like me…?”

She is inviting you to be candid.

So tell her.

“I want to spank you. On your bare bottom…”

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