The 6th part of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Previous challenges can be found here.


Challenge – Day 6

In today’s challenge someone’s going to get their bare bottom spanked. But not you exactly – your alter ego. You are going to imagine that you’re someone else entirely, someone about to receive a good spanking. Then, afterwards, you’re going to sit down on your sore bottom and write about what happened in that character’s voice…




One of the difficulties experienced by those engaging in kinky play is being too self-conscious. The emotional side of you wants to let go and submerse yourself in fantasy, but your rational mind can be tricky to silence, providing a self-critical running commentary that can really kill the mood. So for this challenge, you’re going to pretend to be someone completely different for a while.

Begin by naming the character you’re going to play. The persona you choose doesn’t even need to be the same gender as yourself, if you’re a cis female, and want to play a naughty schoolboy, go ahead – you dress in shorts rather than a skirt, and even slip a dildo inside yourself and pretend it’s your erection. Likewise cis males wanting to play girls can tuck their penis between their legs.

Create a character who’s distinctly different to your real-world persona: that might be someone younger or older, someone meeker or more self-confident, perhaps more embarrassed by your own nudity or more of an exhibitionist. Think Being John Malkovich – whose mind would you love to inhabit for 15 minutes…?

If you’re having difficulty coming up with a character of your own, find inspiration from a favourite story, and make a few changes. Perhaps you’d like to become Alice, Natalie, Nancy Jones or The Boy.

Once you’ve established the basic profile of your character, get a piece of paper and write down the following:

I am [character’s name].

I am [character’s age and gender].

I am [list 3 of your character’s personality traits]

Next, imagine a spanking fantasy for your new character. Why are they being spanked? Do they deserve their punishment? How do they feel about the prospect of being spanked? Who is going to be spanking them? What do they spank with, and what are their rituals of punishment?

Once you have the fantasy established in your mind, act it out. Use what you’ve learned in the previous challenges if you like, try dressing up, or waiting in anticipation before your spanking. Both activities can help you get into character, and immerse yourself in the fantasy you’re creating. Perhaps you’ll be sent for some cornertime afterwards too.

Once you’ve had your spanking, and whatever you imagined happened afterwards, sit down on your sore bottom and begin writing. You may write publicly on your blog, or privately in your own journal.

Write up what you’ve imagined, in the 1st person, incorporate what you wrote down on that scrap of paper as you established your character. Describe what happened in the scene, how you fleshed out the details, how you embellished it with your own imagination. Did you dress up? How did you get into the mind of the character you created?

How did your character feel about their spanking? Were they anxious or aroused? Did you feel like you were experiencing a spanking from a different point of view – did you enjoy adopting and playing in a different persona?

When you’ve finished, post what you’ve written with the tags #selfspankingchallenge and #selfspankingchallenge6

And then, I’m sure you’ll be keen to play – in the character of your new alter ego, of course.

The next challenge will be posted soon. In the meantime, have fun…