I think many who’ve been into spanking their whole lives struggle to put into words why it means so much to them.

Spanking is just a expression of your sexuality. You don’t need to justify it, any more than anyone needs to justify what gender(s) they’re attracted to.

Because it’s non-penetrative, many dismiss spanking as “just foreplay”. As if proper sexuality must involve a cock going somewhere. This is not just an archaic attitude, it’s hopelessly wrong.

One of the main reasons I write is to elaborate in words what others have often imagined but struggle to express.

So, this is my answer to why I love spanking.

You may find it resonates with you, and helps you find the words to describe what you feel so deeply.