Not weird at all.
Many who adore spanking couldn’t imagine getting together with someone if spanking wasn’t on the erotic menu.
When you’re kinky, you realise that no one sexual activity has primacy above all others. Kinky folk understand everyone has their preferences, and we give ourselves the permission to prioritise what we value the most.
That doesn’t mean kinky folk don’t enjoy intercourse, but we have a clear difference in outlook between vanilla folk who see intercourse as the peak of sexual experience, and consider activities like spanking as just ‘foreplay’ or sideshows to the ‘main event’.
Be true to your own sexual compass. It’s yours alone.