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10 Reasons for Bottom Inspections

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All good spankings should end with a bottom inspection.

Where the spankee is exposed and examined by their spanker, who intimately surveys the effects of the spanking they’ve administered.

The picture above is of a naughty young lady I
recently spanked. One of the
pictures taken during her subsequent inspection marvelously captured the very moment her arousal dripped from
her swollen lips. So I asked to her to trace the picture, and with her
agreement, it’s posted here to conclude her punishment. So everyone can
see what a well-spanked, naughty girl she is.

And so everyone can see the physical effect a good bottom inspection can have too.

But there’s more to inspections than just amplifying post-spanking arousal, I can think of at least 10 reasons why inspections deserve to be an integral part of your spankings:

  1. prolonging the moment
  2. making it real
  3. sharing vulnerability
  4. embarrassment and shame
  5. building arousal
  6. examining the impact
  7. aftercare
  8. submission
  9. empathy
  10. continuations

Intrigued? Let me explain…



1. To prolong the moment

Inspections are an opportunity to be mindful, to stay in the present moment and
conserve the precious erotic charge that you’ve developed during the
spanking. If you’ve been roleplaying, an inspection allows both top
and bottom to stay in character just a little while longer, remaining within
and keeping the fragile bubble of their fantasy intact. 

Mindfulness is about experiencing the present moment with your full attention. The bottom experiencing the thrill of being exposed, whilst for the top it’s a chance to read back a miniature
story of the scene you’ve just played.

2. To make it real

If a tree falls in a forest, does it make a sound? As anyone who’s ever spanked themselves alone knows, unwitnessed spankings can feel rather unfulfilling. Something important is missing, someone who’ll elevate the experience from perfunctory to erotic.

Inspections can assume
a special significance if discipline has to be conducted remotely. If you’ve just finished spanking yourself, and your bottom is sore and
smarting, just sending a message like “I’ve had my spanking” to your spanker doesn’t really communicate the hurricane of pain, shame and arousal you’ve just experienced. Sending a picture of your spanked bottom to your partner, or an audio recording of the smacks, helps bring the spanking alive for both of you.

3. To share their moment of vulnerability

The purpose of an inspection is not to ogle your partner, however
beautiful the view might be, but to share in their moment of
vulnerability. Exposure is an act of trust, where the spankee reveals themselves at their most vulnerable, and invites their
partner to share in that moment.

Presenting oneself for inspection is a highly submissive act, so I believe a spankee should always ask politely to be inspected, rather than being commanded to. And if they don’t feel comfortable enough to be inspected, there’s never any obligation.

4. To scold, embarrass and shame

Many find sexual shame is intensely erotic, and an intimate inspection is a fine way of experiencing erotic humiliation in a safe environment, in the privacy of your own bedroom.

I tend to conduct inspections with the spankee’s legs spread wide, so the slit and bottom hole are visible. Such exposure can be very embarrassing, even for those very comfortable with their own nudity. Even more revealing is being told to hold your sore spanked cheeks
apart. To be so thoroughly exposed when all you want to do is rub the
sting away.

5. To assess arousal

Inspections are ideal opportunity to reveal just how exciting your spankee partner has found your playtimes. There’s no denying the implications of a stiff pointing cock, or seeping sticky slit, on display for all to see.

If the spanking you’ve given was intended as a punishment, and the spankee is unavoidably aroused, you might decide to scold them for lack of self-control. Perhaps other punishments will be earned. Or, if you’re spanking for your mutual pleasure, now’s your opportunity to run your finger down
their shaft, or glide a fingertip between their eager lips.

6. To examine the impact

This reason is practical rather than erotic. When the spanker inspects, they are paying careful attention to what their spanking has inflicted. Look at the pink blushes on the spankee’s bottom, did you intend to spank
that hard? Do they need more, or is it time to conclude their punishment?

Be mindful and inspect with all your senses. Is their skin hot to the touch, do they squirm away from your
fingers? Are there any little marks or bruises? What about the state of
the bottom’s clothing, in place or disheveled? Are there tears, either
on their face or damp dots on nearby pillows? Can you see goosebumps?
Was this spanking just what they deserved?

7. Aftercare

Yet inspections should also be more than just a forensic exercise in finding marks.
It is a time to talk to each other, a chance for the top to check the
bottom is ok. To let the scene gently wind down, and allow
reality to resume.

If you’re physically present, it’s an opportunity to rub and caress their sore bottom and provide
the comfort of a cuddle. If you’re both remote, the top should be checking the bottom enjoyed the experience, and their emotional well-being.

8. Submission

Inspections continue the power exchange that began with the spanking being announced and the bottom being bared.

And what could be more submissive than asking them to bend over, holding their spanked
bottom open for one final dramatic act of exposure, an invitation to their disciplinarian to read their most intimate secrets.

9. Empathy

Inspections are also a kind of a time-out, during which the spanker should acknowledge and empathise with the spankee’s discomfort. Perhaps
you’ll commend their obedience to your instructions, and praise their stoicism.

Likewise, if you spent the spanking chiding her for
behaving like a naughty little girl, this is a chance to build her up
again, to express your admiration of how she took her punishment like a
big girl. Or a chance to remind the spankee who sets the rules, and what
they can expect when they misbehave again.

10. Continuations

Last but not least, inspections provide an opportunity to continue the scene.

You might send the spankee to stand in the corner, or to sit upon a naughty
stool.  Or perhaps you’ll get them to take a picture of themselves and instruct them to Draw Lines, tracing out their own image, line by line, just like the picture above.


Spankings should be so much more
than just a few minutes of inflicting pain. Inspections prolong playtime. Why shouldn’t what happens
afterwards last far longer than the punishment itself? After all, once a
fire is ignited, who doesn’t want to linger, and enjoy its glow…?

Hi. I want to give myself a good punishment (one that involves a corner time, a strapping and hairbrush spanking) but I can’t figure out a good way to make the strapping actually hurt, or how to really feel the pain and humiliation of the punishment. Any tips? Thx

If your goal is a sore bottom, I’d recommend spanking yourself for a longer period of time, rather than attempting to smack harder. Get into a comfortable position, set the timer on your phone for 5 minutes, and spank until the time is up. Then go stand in the corner arms folded behind your back, to let the sting develop and your arm recover. No rubbing, of course.

If you need more, get back in position, reset the timer and continue spanking for another 5 minutes. Repeat until your bottom is as sore as you want, it shouldn’t take too long.

An alternative to the timer is to spank yourself whilst watching a spanking video. Here you’ll give yourself a smack each time the on-screen protagonist is smacked. If you need more, rewatch the video or find another to continue the story. The self-spanking challenge series has more suggestions for introducing variety and interest into your disciplining.

As for ways to increase your humiliation of your punishment, I’ve compiled a handy list of activities here.

Hope that helps…

Making my own Chastity Belt

spankingtheatre:

An anonymous reader writes:

I am a terrible procrastinator. I am confident that I would not be the first to suggest that I actually am a very good procrastinator as I seem to lean directly into it. I have found that I must employ a reward scenario to encourage the completion of my chores, however, because I have so often avoided responsibility, I feel it is important to add elements of discipline and punishment.  Today, I have a small list of chores, the last one being that I must write this, a detailed account of my disciplinary methods, for you.

To begin, I must insert a plug into my bottom. This particular implement is being used as I am often in need of a reminder that only well-behaved girls receive pleasure in their cunts. I have not yet earned that right. To return to the plug, it is the Goldilocks sized – neither too big, nor too small. Its bulb is 1 ¾ inches in diameter and is not meant for long term wearing. Rather, it is intended for dilation. It provides a full and open feeling physically (and a naughty, slightly humiliating feeling mentally), therefore, as the sphincter is being stretched, my muscles can not hold it in place.

To combat this, I have employed three leather belts to ensure that the plug stays firmly in place for the duration of my chores. And that my wandering fingers are kept well away. In effect, I have created my very own chastity belt. The belts are used thusly:

The first is secured tightly around my waist.

The second is looped in the back through its own buckle around the first. It passes through my legs, snugly against the plug and through my pussy, up again to pass up and over the first belt at my waist. It is important at this time to ensure that the labia majora are splayed firmly apart to ensure maximum contact with my delicate folds and my clitoris. Like so…

The third belt is then affixed around my waist, just beneath the first. Its role is to ensure my movements to not allow the vertical belt to slip and allow for relief from the pressure on the plug and against my clit.

Keep reading

On her wonderful blog, naughty @littlemisssubshine is inviting readers to submit their own suggestions for some humiliating tasks. So here’s one that she, and other readers here, might enjoy:

  • Shave yourself bare.
  • Make yourself a chastity belt, as described in the post above.
  • Put it on, nice and tight.
  • Then wear it out in public under a skirt or jeans. No panties, of course.
  • Then on your return, before you’re release, sit down with belt still tight.
  • Now write about your experience, and publish it for all to see.

The Lecture

This is my half of an interactive discipline story. I strongly encourage all readers to copy this text into a new post, write your half of the story, and publish. Full instructions are here.


The Lecture

The silence was broken by two weak, hesitant knocks on the door.

“Come in.”

“Ah, all dressed up in your school uniform, like a naughty little girl.”

“Head up, girl. I’m not talking from your feet. Stand up straight.”

“You know how naughty girls are punished in this school?”

“Yes, young lady. And how are they spanked?”

“That’s right, naughty girls have their panties pulled right down, and get a good hard spanking on their bare bottoms.”

“Take off your skirt. Fold it neatly. Place it on the table.”

“Pull down your panties.”

“All the way down. Take them off. Give them to me.”

“What’s this, girl? You’ve made a mess in them! Obviously you find a visit to be disciplined exciting. Dirty little minx.”

“Open wide, girl. There, you can keep your soiled panties in your mouth.”

“Much better. Gagged with your own sticky knickers.”

“Legs apart. You know your bare slit has to be inspected before punishment.”

“Good. Bare and smooth. And very wet.”

“Now go and stand beside the spanking chair.”

“Hands on your head.”

“Not so wilful and cheeky now, are we, young lady?”

“A scolding beside the spanking chair, about to get a good whacking on your bare bottom.”

“My goodness, your face has flushed quite pink. Your pretty little bum is going to be a similar shade very soon.”

“You remember my leather spanking slipper. Just the thing for naughty schoolgirls.”

“Bend over my lap, young lady…”

“That’s it, legs spread apart. Hands on the floor.”

“You are a very… very… naughty girl.”

“You deserve a good… long… slippering.”

“I don’t want to see your feet kicking, young lady.”

“How does it feel to be getting spanked like a silly little girl.”

“This naughty bum is turning a lovely shade of pink.”

“Let’s pause for a moment, so I can inspect you.”

“Lie still whilst I spread your bottom cheeks.”

“You do have a warm bum!”

“What a pretty little hole. Do you find this humiliating, young lady, having your bottom examined?”

“And I see your pretty little slit is glistening. Are you enjoying your punishment? You are a naughty girl!”

“Let’s carry on.”

“A good hard whacking is just what you deserve, young lady.”

“You know I have to be very strict.”

“Spanked like a schoolgirl over my knee.”

“A good old-fashioned bottom warming.”

“I
am glad I put those panties in your mouth. Good girls should take their
spankings with decorum, without silly begging and pleading.”

“A dozen more…”

“That’s it, good girl.”

“You may stand up now, but no rubbing…”

“Now go stand with your nose in the corner.”

“Reach behind, and hold your spanked cheeks apart. Wider, please. You know naughty girls expose their bottom holes.”

“I hope that’s not a pout on your face, young lady…”

“How embarrassing that must be, on display, holding your sore pink bottom open.”

“Did you just stomp your foot, young lady?!”

“Clearly you still haven’t learnt your lesson. But I’ve just the cure for petulant little girls.”

“Keep that nose in the corner, and your bottom open. I don’t want to see you turning around.”

“Come here girl!”

“Shoes and socks off.”

“Now, I’ve a nice fresh pair of punishment panties for you. Step into them, and I’ll pull them up, nice and tight.”

“That’s it, nice and tight between your slit.”

“I don’t want to hear any whining, young lady.”

“Did
you notice that hook on the wall? Perhaps I’ll take you over there, and
lift you up, and hang you up by your punishment panties.”

“Such wide eyes. Don’t shake your head at me, young lady. I’m the one in charge.”

“It’s so cute when you think you get to have a choice.”

“Up we get. See how easily I can pick you up.”

“There we go, hooked into the back of your panties.”

“Now I can leave you to dangle by your panties.”

“If you struggle, they’ll only pull tighter!”

“I’m sure you can feel the rubbing fabric hot against your bottom hole now.”

“You’re going to have such a sore pink stripe between your legs when I’ve finished with you, aren’t you?”

“How cute you are, dangling by your panties, whimpering on your panty gag.”

“I’m greatly looking forward to pulling down your punishment panties and inspecting your sore messy slit.”

“You can kick your little legs all you want, young lady, but I’m leaving you to dangle.”

“Perhaps I’ll put this little potty underneath you.”

“Now you can dangle there until you wet yourself.”

“It’s no use, girl, your panties are too tight to permit your fingers any relief.”

“Have you learned your lesson? Are you going to be a good girl?”

“This is what happens to naughty girls in this school.”

“I think I’ll just stand here and watch you kick your little feet as your panties dig deeper.”

“Are you close to wetting yourself?”

“No, young lady, you’ll be staying up there. I’m going to wait here and watch as you wet yourself.”

“I bet you’re feeling the need to pee growing, already so warm and wet between your legs.”

“That’s it girl, you know Sir is in control.”

“Now
feel the warmth spreading through your punishment panties and seeping
down your dangling legs. Can you hear it dripping into the potty?”

“That’s a good girl.”

“What’s it’s like to wet your punishment panties?”

“Quite contrite now, it seems.”

“Now, let’s get you down again. All gathered up in my big strong arms.”

“A big hug for my special little girl.”

“Now, I’m going to pull down your wet panties.”

“Bend over like an obedient little girl whilst I inspect your stripe.”

“Hold your bottom apart.”

“Ah yes, there we are – a lovely pink stripe from clit to bottom hole!”

“Stay in position, and I’ll use this towel to dry you.”

“And oh… what’s this?”

“There seems to be a wetness here… of a completely different kind entirely…”



Now, write your half of the story and tag @spankingtheatre!

How can I make self-inflicted corner time more humiliating? I want to feel truly contrite

Some ideas:

That should be enough ideas for a very humiliating corner time.

Accountability Is important, so if you’ve been very naughty, make sure you post a confession publicly on your blog before you go to the corner. And if you tag me in that post, then I hope you know that as you’re standing with your spanked bottom on display, I might very well be reading all about your misdemeanours, and tutting sternly…

Bottom inspections are a popular fantasy among readers of this blog.

What could be more embarrassing than having to hold your sore spanked cheeks apart? To be so thoroughly exposed when all you want to do is rub the sting away.

To be made to reveal how much your spanking aroused you. Your seeping, sticky excitement on display for all to see…

No wonder you find bottom inspections so thrilling…

Enema Cushion

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Those wondering about the infernal device that Penny was sitting on in the latest installment, might be interested to see what a sit-upon enema cushion looks like. A bit of googling leads me to believe this is a modern remake of a design (the JBL Cascade) that was popular in the 1930s.

It’s almost as if it was designed as a seat for smacked bottoms. The sitter’s sore bare cheeks in contact with the hot rubber surface, meanwhile the thick black nozzle stretches her bottom hole wide, and the spigot rod juts out between her slit, rubbing against her vagina every time she squirms.

Can you imagine being sent to the school nurse’s office for that kind of Sit Down Dance?

Can you suggest another humiliation activity?

I do hope you’ve tried my previous suggestion, I’m still waiting to read about your panty-wetting experience!

Anyway, here’s another idea for those turned on by erotic embarrassment.

Get yourself a set of plain white cotton panties and an indelible fabric marker that will allow you to write permanently on them (and which won’t wash off). These will be your naughty panties

Write a short message on each pair of panties which you’d find extremely embarrassing should anyone accidentally glimpse it, e.g. “Masturbation Addict”

When you wake in the morning, have a shower. Then put on a pair of your naughty panties and masturbate, rub your juices all over them. Do not change your panties afterwards or shower again, go out for the day smelling of sex.

Every time you masturbate in a pair of your naughty panties, add a new tally mark using your fabric pen.

For added humiliation, set yourself a target to masturbate outside your own home once a week. This might be in a public or work lavatory, somewhere outdoors or at a friend’s house. Use your fabric pen to draw a special star on the pair of panties you were wearing at the time.

You can create other symbols too. For instance, draw your own symbol for every time you masturbate anally, or every time you go out in public wearing a butt-plug, or every time you spank yourself.

And if you ever run out of space to write on a pair of panties, retire them to your underwear drawer, buy some more and start again.

Consider your panties to be your very own wearable sexual record, which you’ll keep just out of sight beneath your sensible clothes, always.

How’s that?

Can you suggest another humiliation activity?

I do hope you’ve tried my previous suggestion, I’m still waiting to read about your panty-wetting experience!

Anyway, here’s another idea for those turned on by erotic embarrassment.

Get yourself a set of plain white cotton panties and an indelible fabric marker that will allow you to write permanently on them (and which won’t wash off). These will be your naughty panties

Write a short message on each pair of panties which you’d find extremely embarrassing should anyone accidentally glimpse it, e.g. “Masturbation Addict”

When you wake in the morning, have a shower. Then put on a pair of your naughty panties and masturbate, rub your juices all over them. Do not change your panties afterwards or shower again, go out for the day smelling of sex.

Every time you masturbate in a pair of your naughty panties, add a new tally mark using your fabric pen.

For added humiliation, set yourself a target to masturbate outside your own home once a week. This might be in a public or work lavatory, somewhere outdoors or at a friend’s house. Use your fabric pen to draw a special star on the pair of panties you were wearing at the time.

You can create other symbols too. For instance, draw your own symbol for every time you masturbate anally, or every time you go out in public wearing a butt-plug, or every time you spank yourself.

And if you ever run out of space to write on a pair of panties, retire them to your underwear drawer, buy some more and start again.

Consider your panties to be your very own wearable sexual record, which you’ll keep just out of sight beneath your sensible clothes, always.

How’s that?

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