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Hello there, I have been reading spanking stories and watching videos every single day for the past 4 years? Your site is by far my favorite. Detailed description in your tales… such a turn-on. I just received an email from you, I’m really not sure how I got it but I’m glad that I did. How do I get new stories when they come out? Also I would love to send you a picture of myself. It is my favorite one that my Dom. took. I am wearing a masquerade mask. How do I send you an attachment?

Given I haven’t sent any emails to anyone recently, I’ve no idea who has just contacted you!

It would be disappointing if I have a imposter, but it demonstrates the importance of staying safe online.

A short public service announcement:

Be sceptical about emails that arrive out of the blue. I’d advise building up trust with any online correspondent before getting too intimate. And for your own safety, be very careful about sharing any personally identifying details online.

Sending a direct message via Tumblr’s private messaging is a better way to ensure that who you’re talking to is who you believe them to be, without compromising the privacy of either of you.

Stay safe everyone.

I’ve tried panty pulling multiple times but I can’t seem to find a good way to get that telltale stripe between my legs. Attaching my panties to something for long periods of time isn’t an option for me right now since I still live with family. Do you have any tips that could help me get a good stripe? My dominant needs proof that I’ve thoroughly punished myself

Sometimes, as you’re discovering, it can be very challenging to get a good picture of the stripe between your legs. I would hope your dom appreciates this, and knows you’re trying your best. Don’t feel pressured into doing anything, he needs to understand your real-life constraints.

Panty-pulling can be a way of experimenting with erotic pain when actually spanking yourself isn’t practical. If you can’t attach your panties to a chair, you can try tying them to your bedframe, and lie down under your covers.

If you have a very stretchy pair of panties, and can pull them up to the level of your shoulder blades, you might be able to pass your bra straps through your underwear and clip them together.

Or, if your panties don’t stretch that far, tug them up and loop a belt through the leg holes at the back. Then close the belt so you’re wearing it above your hips, then put on another layer of clothes on top of it so it’s not visible to others. This way you can wear your panties pulled tight underneath your clothes for an extended period of time. The longer they’re tight, the sorer and more obvious your stripe will be.

I’ve written another post with tips on how to take better pictures. Where the top advice is use mirrors to obtain better angles, and use the strongest source of illumination you can find, daylight being by far the best.

Take your time experimenting, and don’t allow yourself to feel pressured by others. Remember, all this is play, if it stops being fun, you should stop completely. You can always start again when your domestic circumstances are more conducive, and you have more privacy.

“Your Shadow is composed of things we keep hidden, the secrets and thoughts we decide to keep to ourselves. We are social creatures, and society functions because we all have masks to wear and roles to play. As we grow up we learn to be discreet, deciding what side of ourselves to present in public. But that’s ok, our culture might unravel if everyone was suddenly completely candid with each other, there’s nothing wrong with keeping certain thoughts and desires private.”

Secrets and Shadows — The Pansexual Labyrinth

“Your Shadow is composed of things we keep hidden, the secrets and thoughts we decide to keep to ourselves. We are social creatures, and society functions because we all have masks to wear and roles to play. As we grow up we learn to be discreet, deciding what side of ourselves to present in public. But that’s ok, our culture might unravel if everyone was suddenly completely candid with each other, there’s nothing wrong with keeping certain thoughts and desires private.”

Secrets and Shadows — The Pansexual Labyrinth

Could you possibly post more naughty games that can be played secretly for those with roommates/family? Thank you xx

Of course.

I was planning to add a few more silent games when I find some time. But until then, you can make a few adjustments to some of the existing games to play them more discreetly.

For example, Squirm can be played fully clothed or underneath your bed covers. If you’re watching something erotic, just use a screen (like a phone or tablet) that isn’t going to be visible if you’re suddenly interrupted. A laptop is even better, as you can put it on your lap – not only will it block wandering fingers, it will conceal the erections of naughty boys, and everyone will enjoy feeling the laptop’s heat on the crotch. In this variation you’ll be playing against yourself, so rather than sending a message to a disciplinarian, try to beat your own personal best time for self-control.

A more discreet variation of The Panty Pulling Chair is possible for those with a bedstead. Sit upright in bed with your back to it, and tie your panties to the bedstead. Then pull your bed covers over you and slowly begin to slip further down the bed. Ideally by the time you’re lying horizontally, your panties will have been pulled tight. And if you’re ever interrupted, you’ll be lying on top of the pulling cord, so nothing will be visible.

Ups and Downs can also be played underneath bed covers. Or if you’d like to stand, wear a dressing gown, this will allow you to feel the sensations of exposure yet still enable you to close your gown and preserve your modesty if you’re suddenly interrupted.

The ideal place to play the Dildo Ritual privately is when having a bath. Place the dildo in the bath as you run the water, and kneel over it, and then enjoy the urge to impale yourself as the warm waters rise up your thighs.

Secret Reading you’ll probably already know about, as it was designed to be played quietly and alone.

And the new game Throne can also be played discretely, but instead of a chair, sit upright in bed, with your back to a wall or your bedstead. Insert your butt plug before you get into bed, and then get under your bed covers. Put a hardback book or something similar underneath you in bed if you want to provide something for the plug to push against for a deeper sensation of penetration.

Most of all, experiment, and have fun…

Could you possibly post more naughty games that can be played secretly for those with roommates/family? Thank you xx

Of course.

I was planning to add a few more silent games when I find some time. But until then, you can make a few adjustments to some of the existing games to play them more discreetly.

For example, Squirm can be played fully clothed or underneath your bed covers. If you’re watching something erotic, just use a screen (like a phone or tablet) that isn’t going to be visible if you’re suddenly interrupted. A laptop is even better, as you can put it on your lap – not only will it block wandering fingers, it will conceal the erections of naughty boys, and everyone will enjoy feeling the laptop’s heat on the crotch. In this variation you’ll be playing against yourself, so rather than sending a message to a disciplinarian, try to beat your own personal best time for self-control.

A more discreet variation of The Panty Pulling Chair is possible for those with a bedstead. Sit upright in bed with your back to it, and tie your panties to the bedstead. Then pull your bed covers over you and slowly begin to slip further down the bed. Ideally by the time you’re lying horizontally, your panties will have been pulled tight. And if you’re ever interrupted, you’ll be lying on top of the pulling cord, so nothing will be visible.

Ups and Downs can also be played underneath bed covers. Or if you’d like to stand, wear a dressing gown, this will allow you to feel the sensations of exposure yet still enable you to close your gown and preserve your modesty if you’re suddenly interrupted.

The ideal place to play the Dildo Ritual privately is when having a bath. Place the dildo in the bath as you run the water, and kneel over it, and then enjoy the urge to impale yourself as the warm waters rise up your thighs.

Secret Reading you’ll probably already know about, as it was designed to be played quietly and alone.

And the new game Throne can also be played discretely, but instead of a chair, sit upright in bed, with your back to a wall or your bedstead. Insert your butt plug before you get into bed, and then get under your bed covers. Put a hardback book or something similar underneath you in bed if you want to provide something for the plug to push against for a deeper sensation of penetration.

Most of all, experiment, and have fun…

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