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Is it safe to use a belt to administer a spanking between the legs?

I wrote a post on this subject a while back:

https://spankingtheatre.tumblr.com/post/190148262525/smacks-between-the-legs

It should be safe if caution and a smooth belt without studs or buckles is used. Ensure the smacks are delivered slowly and the spanker doesn’t use too much force. The best way to achieve this is for the recipient to always be in control, and able to dictate the pace and the force of the impact.

“Please Sir, I deserve another.”

And don’t aim for the tenderest regions right away, the mound is a good target to smack initially.

Done right, it can be extremely erotic, just don’t spoil the moment by escalating too quickly.

As a follow up to the spanks between the cheeks. What about the bottom hole itself? Is that dangerous. There’s one girl that I’ve seen get the spoon there and that can’t be safe. Can it?

Unless the implement used is very narrow, most smacks aimed at the bottom hole will tend to impact on the innermost part of each buttock, just above the hole itself. Which might be what you’ve seen in videos.

If you are spanking the bottom hole, the same advice applies as given for pussy spankings – namely smack slowly, don’t use too much force, and the recipient is always in control. Done right, it can be extremely erotic, just don’t spoil the moment by escalating too quickly.

How do you feel about spanks between the cheeks? I’ve been seeing a lot more videos that involve “penalty swats” recently but I don’t know if it’s safe.

Spanks between the cheeks – to the perineum and vulva – can be very erotic, enjoyable and arousing. 

But that area should be spanked with considerable care. Impacts should certainly be much lighter than smacks to your bottom. And you should consider using softer implements, ones that flex rather than those that are rigid. The leather flap at the end of a riding crop is perfect for spanking between the legs.

If your partner doing is spanking you there, be sure to proceed very slowly – with you requesting every smack, and a clear stopword. I wouldn’t recommend that smacks between the legs are used for ‘penalty swats’, as that suggests pain on tender places that you won’t be in control of. Better to play safe.

If the activity appeals, it might be a good idea to experiment by spanking your own most sensitive areas first, so you get used to the sensations. In which case, try some of the ideas suggested in this Pussy Spanking post.

Another way to experience similar sensations is to make your own Punishment Girdle. These can be worn secretly underneath clothes, for surreptitious pussy spanking delights.

So, start slowly, enjoy the sensations, and have fun…

Since tumblr changed politics I haven’t been able to find many great pussy spanking resources, any suggestions? :c

If you’re logged into BDSMLR, you’ll find plenty of gifs of bare slits being slapped, smacked, whipped and flogged.

Do say hello if you visit!

Hey, do you have any pussy spanking game? I’ll love to play something like that!!!

There are actually several pussy spanking games here…

Imagine you’ve been sent to detention in a school where teachers are
no longer permitted to spank students, who must instead spank themselves
between their legs. Imagine what it would feel like to arrive at
detention and see a wooden ruler on the desk in front of you, knowing
what you had to do next.

Or maybe your pussy is being spanked because you’ve been caught masturbating. But first there’s the ritual of being shaved completely bare, before you are thoroughly inspected and wiped.

If you like those kind of fantasies, you might like to try the instructions in the original Pussy Spanking post.

Or perhaps you’d like to try something more adventurous, and make your own Punishment Girdle. They can be worn secretly underneath clothes, for surreptitious spanking delights.

You could even try some of the self-spanking games – but spank your pussy instead of smacking your bottom. You’ll find there’s lots of transferable ideas for roleplaying and various spanking activities in those posts.

Have fun!

What punishment would you give a girl who’s on no touch and just played and came next to her sleeping master while reading your blog?

First, a naughty girl who breaks a rule so brazenly should humbly present herself for inspection, and confess her indiscretions as her disciplinarian examines the scene of the crime.

Such a naughty girl could then expect to have her pussy spanked. Strict, firm smacks on the places she couldn’t wait to touch.

Any girl touching herself so wantonly might also expect to be put into a punishment girdle, so the smacks can continue in the sensitive places right between her legs.

The spanking should continue to her bottom, until her seat is hot and pink.

Then there is the sin of masturbating without permission to consider. That deserves a sterner punishment, such as a trip to the panty-pulling chair.

The chair should be placed before a screen. So as she dangles with her hands tied behind her back, her tight panties burning between her slit, her disciplinarian can play a series of videos of good girls masturbating to wet, messy, deliriously noisy climaxes.

And then, when she’s eventually released, she can be put in a chastity belt, until her disciplinarian is satisfied that her self-control can be trusted again.

I hope that answers your question, dear reader.

I’m afraid I’m very strict.

Self-Spanking Challenge #19: Pussy Spanking

The 19th instalment of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Newcomers can find previous challenges here.


Challenge – Day 19

In previous challenges, you’ve felt the sensation of a rubber band
or elastic snapping between your legs. This challenge involves experimenting with more intense smacks…


The buttocks are well-suited for spanking, but smacks between the legs can also be very arousing.

As this area is much more sensitive, and easily hurt, so to prevent lasting damage, it’s important to learn where you can smack, the right choice of spanking implement, and how to judge the force of the impact appropriately.

1 Spanking Your Mound

The best area to start experimenting is the mons, the pubic mound. The layer of fat beneath the skin here means both stinging and impact sensations can be felt, just like those on the buttocks. To maximise your sensitivity, you may want to shave or wax your mound bare.

One implement you can try on your mound that’s often impractical for your buttocks is your own open palm. Undress so
you’re naked below the waist, and sit on a hard straight-backed chair.
Spread your legs as wide as possible, and then with your open palm,
smack your bare mound. Try to angle your hand so the fleshy areas at the base of your fingers are making contact, rather than your fingers themselves.

Add a nice stingy implement, like a ruler, slipper or a spatula, and you’ll be able to achieve all kinds of erotic
sensations, from little taps to breath-taking smacks. With no contortions
necessary. You can also extend your smacks to land on the upper thighs.

The key to a good mons spanking is to avoid hitting the clitoris, but to deliver impact sensations that will be felt deep within the clitoral body.

2 Spanking Your Slit

Once you’re familiar with spanking your mons, you might want to try smacking a bit lower. Just beware of hurting your clitoris. You might want to try putting a small sticking plaster over the hood to shield it, or even drape part of a towel over your lap to cover yourself, at
least until you’ve honed your accuracy and got used to the sting.

It’s worth using a softer implement when spanking your more sensitive parts. A palm is a good choice, but an implement with a small flexible surface area is even better. The leather flap of a crop is ideal if you have one, and a thin leather belt also works well. 

Try spanking the outer labia first, and the area around the vaginal entrance. The perineum and the region around the bottom hole can also produce very pleasurable sensations if your implement can reach it. Lying on your back with your legs open can make this region easier to smack.

As you won’t be spanking so hard, the sensations you feel from each smack of your slit are likely to be stingy rather than impactful. There is no need to smack too hard chasing the same feeling you get from a bottom spanking.


Remember that a pussy spanking is as much a mental punishment as a
physical one, involving the delicious frisson of being put on display and being smacked on your most vulnerable area.

It’s also worth keeping in mind that pussy spankings should be shorter and much lighter than those you’d receive on your
bottom. Don’t hesitate to halt if it gets too sore, especially if you’re
being punished at the instruction of others. 

Once you’re confident of where to spank your pussy, and how hard, you can incorporate it into your playtimes. 

Imagine
you’ve been sent to detention in a school where teachers are no longer
permitted to spank students, who must instead spank themselves between
their legs. Imagine what it would feel like to arrive at detention and
see a wooden ruler on the desk in front of you, knowing what you had to
do next.

Or perhaps your pussy is being spanked because you’ve been caught masturbating – in the dorms, or in the shower – or maybe you’ve even been caught with your fingers in your panties in class. And school rules are very clear on what happens to those caught touching themselves.

As with all good spankings, physical sensations feel so much better when your imagination is engaged too. Improvise a story, and let it transport you…

Self-Spanking Challenge #18: Punishment Girdles

The 18th instalment of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Newcomers can find previous challenges here.


Challenge – Day 18

In the previous challenge, you explored the sensation of a rubber band snap. This challenge involves creating a punishment garment, which delivers an even more intense smack to where you desire it the most…


The goal of this challenge is to make a garment that you can wear beneath your clothes, and be used by yourself (or another) to deliver a quick smack whenever necessary. There are several ways to make it, as this post will describe.

Garment #1: The Rubber-Band Belt

To give you an idea of what this looks like, see this image. I won’t embed it here, Tumblr’s content filter considers it too explicit.

The image shows a ordinary belt worn around the waist, with a rubber band passed through it in two places. The wearer can then step into the belt and pull it up to their hips, just as they would with a pair of panties, and buckle it closed. The rubber band will now be tight against the wearer’s slit, running between their legs and up the crevices of their buttocks to the back of the belt.

Once in place, the rubber band can be twanged anywhere along its length. At the top to smack the wearer’s mound, or lower on her hood or lips. Or perhaps on her perineum or on her bottom hole – regions that are usually difficult to spank because of their inaccessibility. Smacks between the buttocks can be very arousing, especially when coupled with slaps on the bottom cheeks from a conventional implement like a brush or paddle.

Garment #2: The Elastic Thong

The belt and rubber band described above might leave you wanting something that delivers a more intense smack, but is also more discreet and easier to wear under your clothes. To achieve this, you might need to buy some waistband elastic from a dressmaking shop (it’s also easy to find online).

You want to cut the elastic into two pieces. One that will go comfortably around your waist, and one that will pass from your waist down between your legs and back up to the waist again. So you’ll want to measure yourself and mark the lengths you need to cut. Make the crotch length slightly shorter to make it tighter, if you want the smacks to be harder.

Then you can either sew the two lengths together, (or use safety-pins, or tie them). The waist length becomes a loop, whilst the crotch piece will be attached to the middle of the waist loop, at its front and back. The resulting garment will look like a thong, but made of elastic, and perfectly made to measure, making it perfect for wearing over your panties, so you’ll feel the band between your slit all day. Or under your panties. Or with no panties at all.

Then, when you need it, reach underneath yourself, select the point that will be smacked and tug back the elastic, and let go to produce a delightful smack. Or if you have a partner, wear it beneath a short skirt, which they can reach under and snap whenever you’re too bratty.

Option #3: The Elastic Girdle

Whilst the previous two options enabled smacks between the legs, they didn’t cover the buttocks. This design addresses that limitation, adding elastic that runs over the bottom cheeks, enabling a proper spanking to be delivered.

To modify the belt and band of garment 1, you could add a second belt, and pass both belts between the loops of the elastic bands. Position the bands at the middle of each belt, so they’ll be behind you and against your bottom when you put the belts on.

To modify the thong (garment 2), you’ll need to create a band that goes around your thighs, to which short vertical lengths of elastic can be sewn or pinned. The simplest design is a single band of elastic that goes around both thighs, but means you won’t be able to open your legs. For greater freedom of movement, create a couple of garter bands that are worn at mid-thigh, and into which you can sew the vertical straps of elastic that connect to the waistband.

Hopefully this post will have provided some ideas, particularly for those who enjoy sewing and costume making. If you’re proud of what you’ve created, and what to share your creativity, post it with the tag #selfspankingchallenge18.

And in the next challenge, we’ll explore ways of delivering an even more intense sensation between the legs…

I was curious about your thoughts on spanking a naughty girls slit? I was doing one of your self-spanking challenges and decided to see if I would enjoy it as much as the rest of my spanking – and I think I enjoyed it even more. Would be interested to see some sort of challenge based around that, if others are interested?

Smacks between the legs can be very arousing.

If you’re into spanking yourself, shave your mound bare, then strip so you’re naked below the waist, and sit on a hard straight-backed chair. Spread your legs as wide as possible, and then with your open palm, smack your bare mound.

Add a nice stingy implement, like a ruler, slipper or a spatula, and you’ll be able to achieve all kinds of erotic
sensations, from little taps to breath-taking smacks. With no contortions
necessary.

Just beware of hurting your clitoris. I’ve found putting a small sticking plaster over the hood can help shield it, at least until you’ve honed your accuracy and got used to the sting.

You can also extend your smacks to land on the upper thighs, which is a perfect location for anyone
unable to spank their own bottom with as much force as they’d like.

Imagine you’ve been sent to detention in a school where teachers are no longer permitted to spank students, who must instead spank themselves between their legs. Imagine what it would feel like to arrive at detention and see a wooden ruler on the desk in front of you, knowing what you had to do next.

Perhaps your pussy is being spanked because you’ve been caught masturbating. Engage your imagination, and let it transport you.

Yes, perhaps I should make a good spanking on the slit the next challenge, shouldn’t I?

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