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Hi. I am a 23 year old has never had an orgasm. I have tried to a lot, but every time I start masturbating, after a while, the desire just, goes away and it starts feeling, mechanical. I don’t know how else to describe it. Spankings while being naked, being humilated by a disciplinarian and then spanked and everything are incredible turn ons, but it never progresses further. Would love to hear back.

I wrote a post last year for those who enjoy spanking, but gain much less  pleasure from masturbating:

https://spankingtheatre.tumblr.com/post/187175914060/chasing-orgasms

You don’t need to masturbate, and actually, I discourage it in those I discipline. If denial becomes a forbidden fruit, and then a yearning, resisting that craving to touch without permission can become a powerful form of erotic obedience.

So paradoxically, perhaps you need to touch less, and imagine more. Play the self-spanking games, and experiment with other kinds of physical sensations and ways to satisfy yourself.

Remember that the largest sexual organ in the body is between your ears. The clitoris is just a very sensitive sensor, it’s not where orgasms originate – they erupt in your brain, you just feel their echoes between your legs.

And I’ll let you into a secret:

I’ve been able to make partners climax through words alone. Without any touching between their legs. What starts as a yearning, becomes a swelling almost overwhelming desire. Just being strict can be sufficient to leave her teetering on the edge, and a few well-chosen words can tip her beyond, as if I’d just cast a magical spell.

The secret is, there really is no need to rub at all…

Treasure Hunt is definitely my favorite so far. It makes me feel so good inside and at the same time so sweet. You write so beautifully and I want to give you the highest of praises!! Um. There is something I need to ask though. I’ve never actually pleasured myself and am afraid to do so. I’ve only ever felt aroused through reading. I guess I just feel shy to do so and never really knew the basics. What do you think about it? Have a nice day!!

I think that sounds perfectly reasonable.

According to the most recent studies, 97% of men and 80% of women have masturbated at some point in their lives. That means anyone who hasn’t pleasured themselves is likely to be in the minority, but not freakishly unusual. 

There are many good reasons for not masturbating, some will refrain due to religious or cultural beliefs. A big factor is often privacy, especially those in small, crowded households where bedrooms are shared. Some just haven’t found what they really find arousing yet, and that’s perfectly natural too. Everyone is aroused by different things, some have very particular fetishes and fantasies. That’s what makes human sexuality so varied and fascinating.

So, take your time as you explore not only the full surface area of your own body, but also the fantasy worlds conjured by your own imagination.

You, and your desires, are unique.

And that is something to be cherished.

Adventures in self-spanking

spankingtheatre:

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An anonymous reader writes:

For this
challenge
, she decides to adopt the so-called diaper position.  She
wants to realize the benefits of the deep shame her Imaginary
Disciplinarian intends for her. She is to be displayed so he sees everything, her legs above her
head, her cunt and bottom hole presented for his appreciation as she lays upon her trundle
bed.

To do her Disciplinarian’s bidding, she chooses as her tool of choice a schoolroom implement, a long
wooden ruler. The “premise” for her
punishment, like most, is the young lady’s devotion to mischief and her
blatant, almost teasing, disregard for authority. It doesn’t help her cause that she
scampers around the house in her shortest of short pajamas ideally exposing her
most intimate areas to her
Disciplinarian’s eyes…

The thwack, thwack, thwack of each strike of the ruler offers
quite different sensations than other implements used for her
punishments.  This tool allows her to direct a symphony of light, crisp,
altogether delicious strokes to her ample posterior.  The diaper
position gives her the opportunity to reach some of her bottom’s
fleshier areas and – interestingly – some more tender, intimate regions as
well.

As she continues to apply indiscriminate whacks upon her bottom, she
becomes increasingly aware of fascinating sensations originating from
her nether regions. These sensations in turn cause her to increase the
frequency and effort behind her strokes. Quite randomly, some of the
strokes miss her intended target and instead graze her cunt & bottom
hole…

Keep reading

Several readers have been asking for advice on how to intensify the spankings they gave themselves. This post might provide some ideas…

Self-Spanking Challenges

spankingtheatre:

The challenges posted so far…

The Beginner’s Guide to Self-Spanking (read this first)

Day 1 – The Fascination of Spanking

Day 2 – Choices and Consequences

Day 3 – Dressing Up

Day 4 – Anticipation

Day 5 – Cornertime

Day 6 – Alter Ego

Day 7 – Being Naughty

Day 8 – Bottom Inspection

Day 9 – Pillow Hump

Day 10 – Echoes

Day 11 – Christmas Story

Day 12 – Star in a Story

Day 13 – The Proper Way to Watch a Spanking Video

Day 14 – A Note From School

Day 15 – Fire and Ice

Interesting to see last night that even Doctor Who believes in the merits of a ‘jolly good smacked bottom‘. If you do too, you might enjoy playing these self-spanking games…

Self-Spanking Challenge #15: Fire and Ice

The 15th instalment of the Self-Spanking Challenge! Newcomers can find previous challenges here.


Challenge – Day 15

Contrasting sensations can amplify each other. Pain and pleasure. Silence and noise. Hot and cold. You’ll be familiar with the hot ache of arousal, and the fiery stinging heat of a good hard spanking, so in this challenge you’re going to couple that warmth with a completely different sensation, the seasonally-appropriate, cool numbing chill of ice…


To begin, make some ice cubes. Put a tray into the fridge if you haven’t any ready, and wait for them to freeze. Then put them into a bowl of water, which will help take off the frost and melt away any sharp edges.

If you’re playing in your bedroom, put a towel or two on your bed to keep your covers dry.

The idea of this challenge is to alternate between spankings and ice play. For instance, you might begin by circling your breasts, watching as you make your nipples harden. Follow it up with a series of spanks to warm up your bottom.

Then lie down and nestle an ice cube in little dimple of your belly button. Your job is to make sure it doesn’t slide off. A test of your self-control as you feel the ice begin to melt, its cool water dribbling down your heated skin.

Follow this with another quick spanking. Extra hard if you let the ice cube slip.

Then try pulling down your panties and placing an ice cube in the gusset. Then slowly, pull your panties up. Where will you feel the chill nip of the ice? On your bottom hole, your perineum? Boys might feel it against their balls, or the base of the cock. Girls might feel it slip between their lips, or numbing the hot little bulb of their clit.

Pull your panties up until they’re tight and snug against your crotch, leave them in position for a minute, whilst the ice chills and melts, as you feel the trickle of meltwater soaking your panties, mingling with your own arousal. In effect, this a variation of Ups and Downs, where you’re pulling your underwear up and down until the ice is completely melted. And when the ice is gone it’s time for your spanking.

You may have your spanking on your cold wet panties, or you can take them off and have your bottom smacked bare. Either way, aim for a good thorough bottom warming.

When your bottom is hot and pink, get another ice cube to cool it down. To avoid numbing your fingers, you might want to hold the ice cube with a cloth or flannel. Trace the ice across your cheeks, paradoxically you may feel your bottom getting hotter, as the bitter cold is interpreted by the nerve endings in your skin as a burning sensation. You may feel the muscles of your vagina and anus involuntarily clench, hard…

Carry on rubbing the ice around your bottom, until the ice begins to feel soothing and cooling. Roam beyond where you were spanked, rub the ice along the crevice of your bottom, and out to the area of your inner thighs. Pay special attention to the crease of skin where your thigh meets your hip.

Girls might like to move upwards to rub the ice across the public mound. Then downwards, stroking it either side of the slit and the hood of the clitoris. Boys might like to trace the ice along the shaft of the cock, before circling the glans. You might also want to try circling the ice around your bottom hole…

And more adventurous players seeking truly fiery sensations, might like to combine their ice play with some ginger.

If, after the chilling caress of ice, you feel you need to warm your bottom up again, you may bend over for another spanking. You can write your report sitting on a hot bottom, or a cold one, the choice is up to you.


Once you’ve finished writing, you might like to post your experiences on your blog. How did you play with the ice, and how would you describe the sensations? And how did it feel in conjunction with the hot stinging heat of a spanking?

If you post your write-up, don’t forget to add the tags #selfspankingchallenge and #selfspankingchallenge15

As I’m writing this, it’s snowing outside, in big fluffy drifting flakes. But it’s toasty and delightfully cosy inside. Sometimes we need the cold to properly appreciate the glorious heat of a glowing fire…

Hi, how can I say? I loved your post about self-spanking! I have sometimes tried but it was never very gratifying, but I was so happy to read that simple discipline was possible even without a partner. Even though I do not know english very well, I will read all the self-spanking challenges and try them, more happy with myself, thanks to your wonderful post.

I’m very happy to hear the self-spanking challenges have provided such inspiration. I created them because I believe that for many people spanking is a vital aspect of their sexuality, and it can be beneficial to play and explore in the privacy of your own home, whether or not you actually have a partner. I hope you enjoy the adventure.

As for English not being your native language, I’ve always been impressed by how many visitors to this blog come here from all across the world. Truly, spanking is a global fascination!

I’m scared of self spanking because I think it’ll hurt, but I always touch myself to the thoight of it. And I’ve always gotten hard from your stories and even touched. Oh gosh I feel so naughty just writing this! What should I do?

If the prospect excites you, my advice is to try it.

I suspect the reason you’re writing is because you find the notion of being given instructions also quite exciting. I’ve noticed this in many who have submissive inclinations, they know they’d like to do naughty things, but it’s actually being told to do so that tips them over the edge.

So, to all those in the same boat, all those who are fascinated by spankings, but who haven’t had the courage to experience it, I’m going to give you permission to experiment.

Start by reading The Beginner’s Guide to Self-Spanking, then do the first challenge, and write down what spanking means to you. As part of this, try giving yourself a single smack. it doesn’t need to be hard, and it doesn’t need to hurt. Remember, not everyone who likes spanking is a masochist. Write about the sensation, the sound the smack made, and the effect it had on you.

If you liked the experience, you can move onto the second challenge, and try a few more spanks. Build up slowly, and the subsequent challenges will encourage you to make your play more elaborate.

Go slow. Experiment. And have fun!

Self-Spanking and Corner Time

openandspread:

Every now and then I’m doing a self-spanking challenge by @spankingtheatre. I wanted to do this one for more than three months now, I think, but never found the time or was in the mood. Until today where I very spontanously decided that I should do it now.

It was very loud and I’m very wet now.

I’m at day 14 of my 30 day orgasm denial challenge and thought I should do something else then edge, when I was in the mood earlier. So, I decided to self-spank me (as I don’t have someone to do it for me at the moment ;)). I thought I should also mix it up with a challenge, so I went with this.

That meant, after self-spanking me, I had to put myself into corner time for 10 minutes.

I imagined a bedtime spanking because I love those. I got on the bed, my butt propped up with the help of two pillows and spanked myself with the back of my hairbrush this time. Not long enough but it was so loud and I didn’t want my neighbors to ring the doorbell and ask what’s up.

My ass did get into a nice shade of red/pink (which I tried to take a photo off but that didn’t turn out too good, so I deleted it again). And then I went into the corner. I put the hairbrush on my head to remind me of my posture and to remind me that I have to stand still. And then I stood there.

Well, my butt definitely tingled more this way than when I instantly sit down. At least as far as I can remember from the last times. It tingled and went warm and gosh, did I want to rub my clit. But no, I stood there, obediently, face against the white wall, hands behind my head, butt propped out, imagining my master being somewhere in the room after punishing me, me not knowing if he watches or not, if he is as turned on as I am – if he notices how turned on I am.

After a while I couldn’t hold my arms up like that anymore, but I kept them from my clit and changed my position slightly, pushing my nose against the wall, so I saw even less and my mind was fully on my ass (that sadly didn’t tingle anymore at that point) and my pussy that wanted attention so badly.

So, that was that. Now, I want to edge even more but I will keep myself from doing so. Already had two edges today and do want to denial myself from too many more.

A wonderful account of the joys of self-spanking! It does promote incredibly intense arousal – especially when coupled with denial, which is, after all, what you’d experience if you were ever spanked in the detention room.

If you’ve always wanted to be the one standing in the corner with a well-smacked bottom and a delicious tingling between your legs, perhaps you should try the self-spanking challenge too…

I never thought I would be able to experience what your stories describe. I always thought they would just stay fantasies… confined to my mind and nothing more. Surely not something I could recreate for myself in the privacy of my own home, to enjoy as fully as I can.

Isn’t it great that with just your own imagination you can find your
fantasy spanking school in your own bedroom?

The privacy of your own home is the perfect place to explore and build your own sexual confidence. An opportunity to dress up, and smack your own bottom. Or do the sit-down dance as your panties are pulled tight.

Stories can provide arousing new scenarios for your toys too, perhaps as a boarding school bedknob or a Regency era obedience stool.

These stories can provide the script, and you, the performance – in whatever way excites you the most. That’s always been my intention.

Have fun…

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